Pampers Bedwetting Underwear Girls L 34 Count

5 out of 5 stars overallFor someone who is about 165lbs 32in waist, and at first had the same experience of ripping sides, and not fitting like other products of same size range, let me tell you how we fixed the problem to the point we will be buying them again and again.Solution number one: cut a few rows of the elastic strings behind or in front of the seams at the bottom on both sides before putting on, then very firmly bunch, grip and keep holdin each side so that the seams can't rip while putting them on and proceed with caution.Solution number 2 for people that dont have success with the first one, basically just cut more elastic until neary only the waist band is supporting it, the reinforcement at the waist is actually strong enough to support the entire thing and has more stretch than the sides, you may not need to cut the elastic at all depending on your size because of the waist.They are weakest at the bottom of the seam, the middle of the seam is a little stronger and the top is surprisingly strong, so cutting the sides in front or behind the seam helps by making the bottom of the seam no longer the point on the bottom experiencing the stretch, and stopping the bottom of the seam from ripping helps prevent ripping.Actual product, review: The absorbency of these in terms of speed seems like 5x better than the similar size range brand with streachier sides, and their capacity is easily 1.5-3x higher, and they smell amazing!We didn't review these at first because while the product may not have worked for us, we knew we were asking a lot and weren't too upset.But the fact that these do work amazingly with minimal modification for someone who can weigh as much as 170ish lbs after a big meal, deserves 5 stars and my only feedback would be; maybe make the seam at the bottom a little stronger and make the entire length of the sides reinforced same as the waist all the way down to the bottom and or add another inch or 2 to each side of this size range, the label is not deceptive but the weight range advertised does attract customers that are used to that size range fitting them, and more existing customers would be converted easily if the first impression wasn't ripping sides